The TAB guide to mobility aids – temporarily able bodied
Meeting someone who uses a mobility aid shouldn’t be socially awkward; it’s a matter of educating your perspective.
1 Think of the wheelchair, walker, or scooter as part of someone else’s body space. Don’t hang, lean, or put your hands on it without the owner’s okay.
2 Always ask if a user wants your assistance. If the answer is yes, ask how.
3 Make eye contact when you speak directly to anyone seated in a scooter or chair. If your conversation lasts more than a few minutes, sit down yourself, if feasible, so you are both on the same level.
4 Be aware that some people in chairs or scooters can walk. They might – or might not – use braces, crutches, or a walker. Don’t be alarmed or insulted if someone gets up on his own.
5 Don’t stop children from asking questions. If it’s appropriate, let the user answer. Open discussions can prevent fear, distrust, and misconceptions.
6 Don’t think of wheelchairs or crutches as exclusively associated with hospitals or illness. People use them for many reasons.
7 Beware of stereotyping. People who use mobility aids are like everyone else. They have personal lives. Some marry and raise children. Some have high-powered jobs. They have bad days and good ones – and they aren’t necessarily any braver than anyone else.
8 A mobility aid is a tool, not a tragedy. It confers a measure of freedom, for it permits a person with a disability to move about.
9 Most people who use wheelchairs resent the word “confined” for they are not locked in. Without mobility aids, they might be truly confined.
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